A new book by an LGBTQ+ author teaches children the right way to perceive interpersonal relationships. There's nothing political about kindness because it's for everyone, says writer
According to author Jackson Cooper, kindness is not just about being nice to others. In his new title, TheChildren's Book of Kindness, he breaks down what it means to be kind and wants everyone to know that it's never too early (or too late) to start thinking about how we treat others and ourselves.
Cooper said that while the book isn't directly about the queer community, it can serve as a useful tool for families with LGBTQ+ parents, or for young queer people who are just beginning to navigate their identities.
"Early in my life, there were many queer individuals who showed me kindness. They made me feel comfortable when it came to coming out and accepting my full self."
While the book is written for children ages five and up, the author says it may have valuable lessons for their caregivers or parents who will read passages with their children.
"In fact, it's very amusing that many adults have responded to the book since its publication, whether they have children or not. The book has resonated with people of all ages," Jackson continues.
The children's book about kindness uses interactive stimuli to encourage conversation and features colorful images similar to digital stickers and popular emoticons. The book asks questions like, "When was the last time someone put a smile on your face? " and "What do kind words mean to you?".
One of the aspects Jackson emphasizes is that kindness is not just about being kind to others, but more importantly about being kind to yourself. It's part of cultivating a kind mindset, which the author says children don't learn that often, and which doesn't usually follow us into adulthood.
The exercise Jackson recommended is to do one kindness a day for another person and one for yourself. He also noted that kindness can take many forms, including physical contact, sharing, giving, telling a joke, or even just listening.
"Kindness comes in many shapes and sizes," Jackson explained. "It can be small and personal, like saying to yourself that you're proud of yourself, but it can also be something as big as a society-wide political or legislative decision."
Jackson believes this message is universal regardless of background or beliefs. As an openly queer person, he is aware that his identity can be used to undermine the book's values, but he emphasizes that acceptance is not a political ideal as much as it is an ideal of humanity.
"There's really nothing political about kindness because it's for everyone. These very human actions and feelings are valid and in no way can be politicized. I really hope people read the book and understand that we are all capable of it," Jackson concludes.
