Forget monogamy: These 10 animals have more partners than the average Tinder user. And nature doesn't care
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Forget monogamy: These 10 animals have more partners than the average Tinder user. And nature doesn't care

While humans deal with loyalty, animals deal with survival. And sometimes that comes through a really colourful sex life.
Šimon Hauser Šimon Hauser Author
16. 4. 2026

When you say promiscuity, most people think of human relationships, moral judgments, and endless debates about fidelity. But in nature, none of that works. It's not about romance, it's about survival, genes and sometimes power. What one might describe as a "wild sex life" is, in many species, just a normal part of the functioning of the group.

Indeed, even biologists point out that the word promiscuity is more a human shorthand than a precise term in the case of animals. Still, it does make one point - there are many species in which partner-swapping is the norm, not the exception. In some places it helps ensure greater genetic diversity in offspring, in others it reduces aggression between group members, and in others it allows females to gain more control over who will father their young.

And that's why animal sexuality is so fascinating. Not only is it much more varied than people like to admit, but it also shows that nature doesn't care about our ideas of the "right" arrangement of relationships.

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Bonobos: when sex holds society together

If there's one animal that really enjoys sex, it's bonobos. Their sexual behaviour is not just for reproduction. For bonobos, sex is also a tool to ease tensions, calm conflict or strengthen bonds within the group.

This is why they are so often cited as one of the most striking examples of how sex in nature does not have to be just a way to produce offspring. For bonobos, it is part of the everyday social dynamic. In their world, in short, sexuality does not stand out as a scandal, but functions almost as a means of communication.

This may seem provocative by human standards, but it's really just another reminder that nature is not governed by the cultural rules we create.

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Chimpanzees: multiple partners as a normal part of reproduction

Chimpanzees are also a species with a very varied sex life. During the breeding season, females do not usually mate with just one male, but with multiple partners within a group. Studies published in scientific databases show that this behaviour is quite common in chimpanzees.

Unlike bonobos, however, sexuality does not work as strongly as a tool for calming them down. In chimpanzees, it is much more strongly linked to competition, hierarchy and tension between males. This is also why it is interesting to see how a similar "promiscuous" strategy can have completely different meanings in different species.

But one thing is common - the idea of a stable pair for life is really far from reality here.

Lions: intense marathon instead of romance

Lion sex may sound regal only until one looks at the reality. When a lioness is in heat, a couple mates quietly every twenty to thirty minutes for several days. In total, this can add up to dozens or hundreds of copulations in a short period of time.

The reason is simple, the reproductive window is narrow and evolution dictates not to waste the chance. In addition, lionesses do not often mate with just one male. This too can be a strategy. When paternity is unclear, it reduces the risk that another male will later kill cubs that could be his.

What looks like animal unrestraint from the outside is actually a coldly functional plan.

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Hyenas: females who have the power

Spotted hyenas are among the species that break down human stereotypes with particular consistency. Their society is matriarchal, females tend to be more dominant than males and in many ways set the rules of the game. And that includes sex.

In hyenas, it's not the males who are in control. On the contrary. Females decide who they allow access to, and their anatomy gives them extremely strong control over mating. Sexuality here, then, is not only a question of the number of partners, but also a question of power.

It is the hyenas that beautifully demonstrate how misleading people's ideas are that in nature the roles of male and female are always clearly predetermined.

<Path> Kdo má vyšší „body count“? Gayové, nebo heteráci? Čísla existují, ale realita je mnohem složitějšíZdroj: pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov, contexts.org, psypost.org, theguardian.com, psychologytoday.com, news.sky.com, ucl.ac.uk, womens-health.com

Dolphins: sex where many would not expect it

Dolphins have long fascinated scientists and laymen alike, and not just for their intelligence. In fact, their sexual behaviour goes far beyond simple reproduction. In dolphins, sex is repeatedly described as part of play, bonding and social interaction in general.

At the same time, this is a species in which same-sex sexual contact is also common. This is why dolphins are often held up as an example of how sexuality in nature can have a much wider range of functions than people traditionally attribute to it.

In their case, moreover, it is again clearly seen that the more complex the social life of a species, the less its sexuality can be simplified to a simple "male plus female equals cubs".

Snoozers and other birds in which the female alternates between males

The notion that in nature the male is the active "conqueror" is also seriously cracked in some birds. In species such as jacanas, on the other hand, the female tends to be larger, more dominant and mates with more males, who then often take over much of the care of the eggs or chicks.

The female may maintain an entire territory within which she rotates between several partners. Here we are no longer just looking at random sexual behaviour, but at a system where partner turnover is directly part of the reproductive strategy.

It is also a reminder that even in the bird kingdom, which people like to idealise through swans and doves, there are models that are far from romantic fidelity.

<Path> Čeho je moc, toho je příliš a platí to i pro počet sexuálních zkušeností našeho partneraZdroj: Tomáš Boroš, link.springer.com, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov, psychologytoday.com

Chickens and their wild ancestors: more control than it seems

It may not sound very sexy, but even in the wild ancestors of domesticated hens, scientists have described quite complex sexual strategies. Females can mate with multiple males during a single reproductive cycle, and it's not just the act itself. Importantly, they also retain some degree of control over which sperm ultimately succeed.

This is where we get to one of the most interesting parts of animal sexuality: selection doesn't end with mating. Some studies show that females of different species still have ways of favouring a particular mate after the fact.

It almost sounds like biological intrigue, but it's really just more evidence that nature is much more inventive in its reproductive strategies than people often think.

Lemurs: cuteness does not preclude sexual activity

Small nocturnal primates, such as some lemurs, may look innocent at first glance. But research has shown that females may be much more sexually active than previously thought. In some species, they mate with several males, apparently quite deliberately.

This is especially important because the stereotype of the "picky female" and the "active male" still persists in popular ideas about nature. But the reality is much more complex. In some species, it is the female who plays a surprisingly dynamic role.

And this is where nature gets really interesting. Not because it's scandalous, but because it doesn't fit into simple boxes.

<Path> Věděli jste, že některé ryby během života mění pohlaví? Příroda tak zajišťuje rovnováhu a dává nám lekci o rozmanitostiZdroj: australianmuseum.org, emperordivers.com, bsd.biomedcentral.com, web.augsburg.edu, peerj.com, marinebiology.org, link.springer.com, masterliveaboards.com, byjus.com, pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Squirrels: inconspicuous animals, surprisingly busy schedule

One of the most interesting examples is squirrels. Studies on their reproductive behaviour have shown that females of some species mate with an average of several males during a single day of estrus, in one study involving almost seven partners per day.

This is exactly the kind of information that overturns people's preconceived ideas. In the human imagination, a squirrel is a cute, furry creature from the park. But evolution doesn't see it as a mascot of cuteness. It sees it as an organism designed to maximize reproductive success in a short period of time.

And when that comes via multiple partners, nature obviously has no problem with that.

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Antechinus: sex beyond self-destruction

Then there's an animal that almost seems like a biological extreme from another world. The tiny marsupial Antechinus is famous for the fact that males literally exhaust their bodies with a series of long and repeated mating sessions during the very short mating season. The result is so drastic that the males often die after the season.

This is no longer just about promiscuity, but a reproductive strategy that is almost self-destructive. Everything is subordinated to a single goal: to pass on the genes, whatever the cost.

It may be a bizarre idea for humans. For evolution, just another working model.

What does nature have to say about all this? That "normal" is much broader than we think.

What is perhaps most interesting about the whole subject is how quickly it shatters people's ideas of what is natural. There is no one right model of relationships, sex or parenting in nature. There are just different strategies that work in different conditions.

In some places sex calms conflict, in others it empowers, in others it increases the genetic diversity of offspring, and in others it is a way for the female to gain more control over reproduction. Monogamy is just one option, not a universal rule.

Source: PBS, Nature Education, LiveScience, Discover Wildlife (BBC), Science News, Smithsonian Magazine, National Geographic, California Academy of Sciences, PMC (PubMed Central), Science

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