Men too have their International Day, it is just as little known as the issues it highlights. This year, it highlights male role models

When is International Men's Day celebrated and what is its purpose?

IWD falls on 19 November every year and 2024 is no exception. November was deliberately chosen because it is "important to the male soul", thanks in part to events like Movember that focus on men's health. According to the organisers, the aim of MDM is to encourage men to impart values to young boys and cultivate responsibility in them. The day celebrates the positive impact men have on the world, their families and communities, highlights male role models and raises awareness of men's mental and physical health.

MDM was officially launched in 1999 in Trinidad and Tobago by Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh, although proposals for the establishment of the day have existed since the 1960s. Even then, the New York Times reported that men were seeking to establish February 23 as their day, which would be similar to International Women's Day on March 8.

The main themes of the day, which rotate from year to year, are men's health, improving relations between men and women, and promoting gender equality.

This year's theme is very clear - positive male role models. The organisers encourage men to be an inspiration to younger generations and set an example. As Mahatma Gandhi said, "Be yourself the change you want to see in the world." When men and women lead by example, they will create a just and safe society where everyone has the opportunity to flourish.

MDM is celebrated with spectacular street parades, especially in Singapore, Australia, India, the UK, the USA, South Africa, Hungary, Ghana, Moldova, Canada and Haiti and Malta. In addition, in the UK, a conference was held in Brighton and Hove in 2010 to openly discuss issues affecting men and boys. Similar events are now taking place across the country. The day has thus gradually become a very interesting opportunity for people around the world to express their appreciation for the men in their lives and their contribution to society.

Isn't every day International Men's Day?

Some might argue that it is. On social media, especially during International Women's Day, one often hears the question of why there is no male equivalent. British comedian Richard Herring regularly reminds us that MDM exists and uses this opportunity to raise money for victims of domestic violence through Refuge. Herring comments that "it's useful to turn negative comments into something positive and helpful".

According to Samaritans, there were 5,656 recorded male suicides in the UK in 2023, 372 more than the previous year. Men aged 45 to 49 are the most likely to resort to suicide, with around 25 suicides per 100,000 men in this age group. The MDM also highlights the challenges of men trying to balance work and family responsibilities and remain part of their children's lives if they and their partner separate.